Knock ! Knock !
-(opening eyes) Who is it?
-Hey welcome. Now, Where would you like to stay?
–Ummmm…(thinking with an uncanny smile)
-Like my Head, Heart or Nerves !
Actually, In real life you don’t get a chance to ask this question. That ‘someone new’ just stays wherever he wishes to, without seeking your permission. Isn’t it?
People come and go in you lives; leaving some impact on you: maybe good or maybe bad. Some people you tend to forget with time while some get impossible to forget with time.
Lets know the impact, some people leave when they stay in your “Head, Heart or on your Nerves”…..
People who welcome themselves in your Head:
These kind of people will control/ tame / manipulate you. They will tell you how you should[talk, walk, speak, laugh..etc]. They will destroy your decision-making abilities. They can be controlling to an extent that you may feel like one of your players in your video games. These people will never find themselves wrong because for them controlling you is a charity.
Precaution: I request you to keep your third eye (mind’s eye) always open. Also, keep learning from your experiences and also from others’.
People who cling themselves on your Nerves:
Ouch! I am sure you must have experienced that physical pain when your nerve gets compressed or pulled. Well, those people who get on your nerves cause an even severe pain to that (but mental). Physical pain is easy to diagnose and can be cured by taking some analgesic but, mental pain is not easy to determine even with the help of M.R.I scan.
Let me try to explain these kind of people: These are the people you will find maybe nagging, complaining or whining; about anything and everything. They can complain even about the way someone breathes. These are unsatisfied , jealous souls.
People who enter your Hearts walking on the Red Carpet:
Well, you will feel blessed to have them in your lives. They will come, to make you a better and a much loving person. These people won’t force themselves in your lives instead they will pave the way to your heart with their genuine behavior and kind gestures. They might not necessarily posses some extraordinary looks, wealth, lifestyles or body but will surely have an Extraordinary Heart. They wont tame you, they will support you. They won’t give you pain, they will give you tears of joy, giggles, laugh , hugs… etc.
Precaution/ warning Tip: Don’t let them go. But also don’t force them to stay with you. Give your best in the relationship and then let them choose, what they want to do. Don’t worry cause they say, “if its meant to be then it will be”.
Always stay Alert!
Make some Principles for yourself and stick to them. It will be difficult at first and surely you would fail to understand the other person initially but don’t worry coz it’s the only way you can learn. Also look at yourself too and think where do you mostly stay, when someone welcomes you in their lives. Always learn from your experiences and stay strong.
Keep in mind,