On a recent conversation I received a line which made me feel bad when, I thought that what might have made someone to ever feel or to come to a conclusion like that.
This post is dedicated to all those humans who ever felt or are feeling that way.
Lets take these examples and think:
▪️ You went to a city for two days. There on reaching you see thunderstorms, heavy rainfall, dark clouds, dirt overall a very bad weather. Could be any reason for that to happen. So, seeing all those you judged that the city is rubbish, dirty with nothing worth watching. Where, in reality the city got Beautiful: landscapes, hills, sunsets, lakes, gardens, and everything that can make someone to travel there again and again.
▪️You’re sick (fever) therefore you look pale, dull, lazy and developed dark-circles. A friend, after months came to meet you without telling you beforehand. On seeing you like that he assumed/ judged that you are whiny and boring. Where in reality you are a very lively and adventurous person.
What am I trying to tell you through these examples??
(Relax and try to understand this)
Most People no matter what will judge you on the weather that is hitting your “state”& not on the “climate” you have.
Weather: is the atmosphere of a place at a particular time. It could be rainy, windy, chilly, dry etc. But, it doesn’t mean that the place has it all through the year.
Well, we humans too have weathers (emotional) that hit us without any warning. Could have rainy(crying), windy(smooth going), chilly( heart breaks, hurt) , dry( angry/ frustrated) ….etc. But that doesn’t mean that you behave like that all the time (24/7) ; it is just for some time and due to some factors.
Judging someone on his/her bad day or during his/her bad time is the easiest thing to do. As it wont take much time and effort to get the survey done; Shallow or Selfish people are expert in this job.
It will take a deep thinker/ genuine/ generous person to know and understand someone’s reality. And these precious people sadly hold a minority in total human population.
You don’t need to be of certain age or gender; for being Emotional. Do not believe even when a strongest (body-wise) person says that “he/she is not at emotional”. The degree might differ but we all are EMOTIONAL. So, don’t hesitate (especially men) at all to show your emotions.
I know there will be people who will mock or taunt you but you know what? this, will make the process of knowing someone’s nature or reality 1000 time more easier.
Hurray!! that’s so cool coz You will be able to Lighten and Enlighten yourself.
It’s because of the emotions that we are able to acknowledge a fracture/cut/ heart-attack..etc that further enables us to treat it at the right time or else we might die without even knowing the cause of our deaths ! Just think about it !!
An umbrella made from Cheap material will fly away when the weather gets bad But the one made from Best quality material will come with a life time warranty and will protect you; Always.
😢😨🤕😊😃= 👨 / 👩
Oh! and the line that made me write this “Its not attractive for especially guys to show their emotions”. I am telling this to everyone that this line is a false fact and can’t be related to any human alive.
And if you are interested to know about the factors: