Maybe you are…… but here’s the way

** Maybe you’re scared & that’s why **

Maybe you’re scared to put a smile on your face because you know that the whole world can fall for you again and again….

Maybe you’re scared to love yourself because you know that you can find the best lover in the world…..

Maybe you’re scared to take a step forward because you know that you can find out your way to wonderland….

Maybe you’re scared of climbing up because you know that the view you will be seeing gonna be breathtaking…

Maybe you’re scared of facing struggles because you know that after this phase you can become beautiful and unbreakable like a Diamond….

Maybe you’re scared to initiate a soulful conversation with your heart because you know that you can find the answers of all those untold & unanswered questions….

Maybe you’re scared to look inside your own-self cause you know that you can find a fearless invincible person who is capable of fighting all the battles alone….

Maybe you’re scared to get Motivated also because you know that there is a lion-hearted warrior inside you that can roar the loudest and has the potential to rule the world….

Being scared isn’t good right? Just think what you used to do when you were a kid and scared of something: you did a little of what scared you everyday so as to slowly reduce the fear and then eventually to get over it. For example: riding a bicycle without training wheels or learning to not to panic when you are alone in the dark…etc there are many examples.

But What to do when you’re all grown up and that now its the psychological things that Scares you the most?? 

(Cool down, breath and then continue reading)

The procedure remains the same; You will again Do A Little of What Scares You Everyday Till The Day It No More Scares You but EXCITES YOU. For example: if you’re scared of looking inside your own-self then just explore yourself for few minutes everyday till the day you know and understand yourself better or if you’re scared to love yourself then just do a small activity that you love or can benefit you till the day you no more feel lonely and unloved at all. 

Surely, overcoming your fears in this manner will take Time and a lot of Patience but wait for Whom are you doing this? your own-self; Right. So, it’s all worth it because sooner or later that will benefit and help you. After you get over your fears you will notice a dynamic and amazing change: in your personality, confidence, the way you see yourself…etc. 

Give yourself some time and actually help your inner-self to know/ understand/ get friends with   you truly. No..No…No! You are not being selfish at all by doing this; its been said that, “When you are good you see good”. Its only after you learn to love yourself you can love someone else so Take Care of Yourself too.

Even in adulthood, (sometimes) you first need to take Baby Steps on some arduous roads: to learn how to walk peacefully and confidently.

Don’t let your


Turn into…PHOBIA

87 thoughts on “Maybe you are…… but here’s the way

    1. That’s what I want to convey through “baby steps”. But before anything you yourself have to initiate and that’s the thing most of the people are scared of.
      All those things like walking safely and stuff will come after you decide to move your leg first 🙂 🙂
      Nice knowing your thoughts 😊

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      1. Very true’s always the initial steps that we are somehow scared to take but once they’re taken there’s absolutely no looking back and you feel mighty confident 😊

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    1. Thank you so much for your lovely feedback. Well I didn’t know that those line formed a poem it just happened. I don’t write poems usually.
      I checked your blog literally it had lovely ☺️posts. Keep writing 🙂

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  1. Well, being scared is pretty much something that I have dealt with my entire life. It keeps creeping up on me, no matter how much I try to avoid at times. Things just keep happening that put the fear back inside me. Still, I’m dealing with it much better than I used to, so babysteps is definitely right. One day I will conquer fear altogether I guess, but for now small steps are what it’s gonna take. Another great post 😊

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    1. Good Luck! for your mission. I am sure you will conquer all 🙂 Yup this process will take time but all worth it.
      Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with me. I really love to know people’s experiences. You can share anything anytime here 🙂
      All the very best to you 👍

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  2. Really enjoyed this, I am battling with learning to know/like myself, and all I can say is it’s a process! But it’s so true, you must keep trying and challenging x

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts 🙂
      Of course its a battle like process but since your dedicated you are already on the way to achieve victory. All the very best to you 🙂
      Keep trying till “the day it no more scares you but excites you”.


    1. A little time and dedication is all what you need to get over your fears. And as I said Don’t hurry (baby steps) . You’re gonna win and I want to be the first person to congratulate you.
      SO, CONGRATULATIONS! you did it 🙂
      You can check my earlier posts as well they can help you 🙂
      Thank you so much for sharing your thought 🙂

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      1. Avid you are the one I would want to give the feedbacks, because you are a great observer.😃
        Keep reading more blogs especially the older ones of other’s.
        You shall shine in yours.💟

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    1. Thank you so much 🙂
      Don’t think about people because at the end of the day any happenings good or bad will have its affect only you so you must take care of yourself as well.
      So Help yourself too 🙂


  3. This was a really refreshing post and very different from what I have seen so far which I love! Your blog overall is nice and clean and easy to navigate. Keep it up!

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  4. Really enjoy your posts so far and thank you for popping into my little blog and having a read😊. This one really makes some good points: we tend to dismiss fear because we’re adults but there’s always little “us” inside, often craving comfort, reassurance and a loving voice to say, “Don’t worry, you can do this; everything will be OK. ” 🌺🌺🌺

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