Knock ! Knock !
-(opening eyes) Who is it?
–Someone new.
-Hey welcome. Now, Where would you like to stay?
–Ummmm…(thinking with an uncanny smile)
-Like my Head, Heart or Nerves !
Actually, In real life you don’t get a chance to ask this question. That ‘someone new’ just stays wherever he wishes to, without seeking your permission. Isn’t it?
People come and go in you lives; leaving some impact on you: maybe good or maybe bad. Some people you tend to forget with time while some get impossible to forget with time.
Lets know the impact, some people leave when they stay in your “Head, Heart or on your Nerves”…..
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People who welcome themselves in your Head:
These kind of people will control/ tame / manipulate you. They will tell you how you should[talk, walk, speak, laugh..etc]. They will destroy your decision-making abilities. They can be controlling to an extent that you may feel like one of your players in your video games. These people will never find themselves wrong because for them controlling you is a charity.
Precaution: I request you to keep your third eye (mind’s eye) always open. Also, keep learning from your experiences and also from others’.
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People who cling themselves on your Nerves:
Ouch! I am sure you must have experienced that physical pain when your nerve gets compressed or pulled. Well, those people who get on your nerves cause an even severe pain to that (but mental). Physical pain is easy to diagnose and can be cured by taking some analgesic but, mental pain is not easy to determine even with the help of M.R.I scan.
Let me try to explain these kind of people: These are the people you will find maybe nagging, complaining or whining; about anything and everything. They can complain even about the way someone breathes. These are unsatisfied , jealous souls.
Precaution Warning : They are difficult to be determined. You will be able to know their character only with time. But don’t worry you will hear an alarm bell ringing inside your head, as they start being disgusting; Please take that alarm seriously and don’t you dare touch that snooze button.
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People who enter your Hearts walking on the Red Carpet:
Well, you will feel blessed to have them in your lives. They will come, to make you a better and a much loving person. These people won’t force themselves in your lives instead they will pave the way to your heart with their genuine behavior and kind gestures. They might not necessarily posses some extraordinary looks, wealth, lifestyles or body but will surely have an Extraordinary Heart. They wont tame you, they will support you. They won’t give you pain, they will give you tears of joy, giggles, laugh , hugs… etc.
Precaution/ warning Tip: Don’t let them go. But also don’t force them to stay with you. Give your best in the relationship and then let them choose, what they want to do. Don’t worry cause they say, “if its meant to be then it will be”.
Always stay Alert!
Make some Principles for yourself and stick to them. It will be difficult at first and surely you would fail to understand the other person initially but don’t worry coz it’s the only way you can learn. Also look at yourself too and think where do you mostly stay, when someone welcomes you in their lives. Always learn from your experiences and stay strong.
Keep in mind,
Loved reading it.
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Loved it!!
Have you heard this one about WWlll
KNOCK KNOCK
Who’s there?
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That didn’t come to my head until u reminded me. That’s right 😀 😀
Thanks 🙂
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Scary! 😉
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Right, I hope this never happen to anyone 😉
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oops! I just inadvertently trashed your comment on my ‘Eyes Speak the Truth”, your the second one I have done this to in the last week, so sorry,
Mick
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Its okay 🙂
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Bless, thank you!
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You’re welcome 🙂
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☺
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Thank you for the likes on my post…your blog is awesome too.
Have a fantastic week ahead😆
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Thank you 🙂
I enjoyed reading the poems you wrote 🙂 😊
Wish you too an amazing week ahead 🙂
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Thank you for the follow!
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You’re welcome 🙂
I like your posts.
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Thank you so much!
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You’re welcome 🙂
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Few are they, but the few are all over the world, so they make a majority.
Hahaha
Shiva
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Love this! As I read each description, people that corresponded with each popped up in my head!
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Well even I wrote this keeping some people in my mind 😉 Thanks for your feedback 🙂
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That’s a profound observation actually. People truly do tend to just “show up uninvited” and “stay” in our lives as long as they feel like. It’s up to us to determine whether or not their residency brings with it positivity or negativity. Awesome post!
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Thank you so much for your feedback.
Right, that’s exactly what I wanted to convey 🙂
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Wow! Loved it. So simply put- people either enter your head, heart or nerves😊.
Thanks for following my blog. Coincidentally, our blogs have similar names: mine is life a teacher.
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😀 😀 Right. Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
I loved your blog posts too; especially the “PAUSE” 🙂
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Thanks😊 will catch up on your other posts soon.
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You’re welcome 😀
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I am reminded of the warning not to let people live in your head “rent free.” Thanks for your thoughts.
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You’re welcome 🙂
Right, “don’t let them in” 😀
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“Don’t let hospitality hospitalise you.” This is power!! Another touching Avid Observation.
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Thank you so much 🙂
Glad you liked it 😊
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I loved it!!
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That’s so sweet of you 😊
Thanks 😊 🙂
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Wonderful post! Nicely explained the characteristics of different people!
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Thank you so much for your lovely feedback 🙂 😊 😊 It means a lot to me 🙂
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Quite a nice read. It’s amazing to watch your flow of thought come into words. Looking forward to more posts from you
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Thank you so much for your kind words 🙂
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Your work is worth every word. Keep up the good work
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Thanks again 🙂
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This is such an amazing post. It makes me wonder if we have all the power to decide who stays in our lives. Lovers come and go. Haters. though not literally in one’s life, stick around for a long time.
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Thank you so much 🙂 We don’t have this special power to stop them in reality but you know we got brains and experiences for that.
Good to know your thoughts 🙂
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You are right about that. We can use our imagination to make the right choices. Thanks for sharing.🌼
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This is very well explained; I can strongly relate to your post!
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Glad you enjoyed it 🙂 All of us can surely relate to this. Thanks for stopping by and for giving your feedback 🙂
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Your welcome 🙂
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Well, I met pretty much everyone of these people, but there are also people that become combinations of these. Like someone who enters your heart, but ends up on the Nerves side too (but you can’t let ho, because they are in your heart). Those can be very dangerous if I am being honest. Great post: you have given very accurate discriptions 😊
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You can never tell where a person wants to make his place.
People getting on your nerves could be very painful but its better to get rid off of them as soon as possible. Hope you never meet such people in future.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts ☺☺
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Reblogged this on Transparent Being and commented:
Head, Heart or Nerves!
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This is so well portrayed. We really load our existence with so many of other people living in us. So much of the work is to identify them, keep the nourishing energies and keep the space clear for living as your own Self.
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True that! Thank you so much for your lovely feedback means a lot 🙂 😊
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You are very welcome 🙂
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beautifully written and so true.
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Reblogged this on andnowmiguel and commented:
This is an old blogging friend. We have some similarities in focusing on subjects, no we’re not getting “match made”. Ha. Enjoy (by reading it) this very insightful post.
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Thanks a lot for the reblog 🙂 Appreciation from you always means lot 😊😊
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After a long absence (mine) I come to steal your material. Ha (you can do nothing about it, um???). Good framework here, in this post. Just an inexpert observation (avid observer).
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Well whatever I post is for readers, do anything you wanna: share it,tell about it, grasp it or even steal it(for good); its all upon you 😉 I wouldn’t mind
Thank you so much for your appreciation 🙂
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” They can complain even about the way someone breathes.” : 😂😁. Nice post.
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Thank you so much 🙂 😀
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thanks for sharing this great and meaningful information with us keep it up for you good, hard and dedicated work.
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Very interesting article. Leaves much a thought to ponder. Anand Bose from Kerala
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Good to know you that you found it interesting. Thank you for your feedback 🙂
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Hi Avid Observer. Who can we really trust these days? Thank you for liking “Heroes! and Confused!” Be Safe#TheFoureyedPoet.
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Hello 🙂
I believe that only person that we can trust truly is our own-self and also the lessons we have learned from our experiences. They are really good advisers 😊😊
I really loved going through your posts they were wonderful 🙂
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