More than Just Answers

I ask the readers who couldn’t read the previous part to read it 

here Questions for D. It will enhance the meaning of this post for you.

Thank you so much to everyone who took time and lend me their contributions. 


Gender? Religion? Beliefs? Theist or atheist? Financial Background? Size: whether thin or not? Tall or short? Color? Caste? Age? 

None came up with that; Obviously because these doesn’t matter after you Prove yourself.

The things that might be bothering you right now (age, gender…etc. ) won’t Exist after you achieve your goal.

That time you will be  just  “One Perfect Human”: An inspiration for all to look up to. 

We demotivate ourselves almost everyday by telling our own-selves, things like : Oh, I am a [girl / kid/too old/ poor/ weak /… /….etc ] so I can’t or I shouldn’t be doing this. Also, many times society too tell you these stuff and by society it can sometime mean your own family or friends also. I understand that those phrase/ sentences are hurtful and can have poisonous effect on you. The pressure can get unbearable. This pressure makes quitting a 100 times easier. BUT, that’s the Thing That We Don’t Have To Do.

Calm down and Continue reading….

Remember, when you were kid and used to get sick easily; but now that you’ve grown must have noticed that the frequency has decreased a lot. Why? Simple because as time passed the food and the bitter medicines made you immune. We as kids never liked having all those bitter medicines but now you are able to understand the reasons behind those stuff. Likewise, this phase is for you to make yourself immune. Just keep putting your efforts in the right direction with full dedication. The accomplishments and goals that you will achieve on your way will make immune. They will help you to fight back against those barriers that people might create. Later, you will able to understand much clearly, all the reasons behind those struggles you faced.

People around you will have a hard time defeating you. 

There are many successful people in this world: famous and also not so famous whom we admire and have made themselves our role models. We in the real sense admire: their work, talent, dedication, contribution in this world and not their specifications. They all have gone through that difficult phase; fought bravely and proved themselves. Everyone doubted them too… but it was their Brave dedication that kept them focused. 

Replace “D” with any personality that you admire and ponder why do you appreciate them? The answer that you will receive will be much more beneficial for you, than some imagined up answers.

So, next time when someone tries to pull you down with the help of those stuff just remember that, they are the same people who are going to ask you for your advice in future;

Tell them that you will be answering  their questions later, when they will be fortunate enough to be able to meet you. 

Don’t Worry Those

Irrelevant Human Specifications

Doesn’t Need

Your Attention


34 thoughts on “More than Just Answers

  1. Ohhh clever!! I had to go back and look at the original post again and see that there were no extra details like gender or age in there. When I first read it I had not noticed the absence of that at all. Nice well made point!

    Liked by 4 people

    1. Glad that you stopped by. The motive of my writings is to help those friends who need a little push. You can go through my earlier posts as well hope they can will help you to get through this phase. 🙂


  2. This is a great piece from you. You described every detailed situation and every conflict we all pass through the phases of our life and the way to deal with them.
    I am sure these will be beneficial for all your readers to get enthusiasm and confidence… 😊😊

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    1. Those things don’t come up “when” you do something good/exceptional but you will surely notice people pointing those stuff when you are in that process of making yourself.
      People do forget that “equality thing” and that’s why they compare themselves n others.

      Thanks for your feedback 🙂

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