I was pondering on this word “BITTER”. And started confusing myself; believe me I’m really good at this. But hey, don’t worry my confusions are not so contagious.
So, here are my CONFUSIONS and their CONCLUSIONS…………..
The word “Bitter” can not only describe a taste but also Speech, Sound and Attitude.
Explaining which taste could be described as bitter isn’t that difficult; For this just search for a bitter guard or a lemon(take a bite of its covering or its seed).
*Now have some jam or sugar and continue reading this 😛
But, Bitter Speech? Bitter Sound? and Bitter Attitude? No, you didn’t miss any biology classes; the taste buds are located only on your tongues. Period.
Bitter Speech :
Kind of speeches that when delivered can give you bruises. These can tear you….these can burn you. These speeches contain words designed to hit you at the right places. These kind of speeches can have stronger effect on you if delivered by someone Close to you.
Damage once done through speech can’t be undone…………
Bitter Sounds :
Well actually these are sounds produced by Criticisms and sometimes by Truth. Criticism specially done on your Looks, Color, Size, Shape, Gender, Religion or on your beliefs are bitter. Truth/ Facts about yourself that you think are ugly when gets disclosed Sounds Bitter; a lair, a cheater or a betrayer inside you when gets revealed your surroundings will sound Bitter to you.
A Hurtful comment/ criticism or an unpleasant truth Stings……..
An attitude possessed mainly by narcissists: People who love to degrade or demean others. These people will never miss an opportunity to blame you for a mistake you never did and to make you feel guilty. They got manipulative communication skills. These people are scary as they might not appear bad when seen from a distance.
If one follows unhealthy Ego and Selfishness his Brain gets filled with Bitterness…..
Now, that you know the stuffs that are Bitter or can make you bitter : Grab some positivities, good characteristics and qualities like love, kindness, honesty….etc. And continue living your lives FILLING IT with SWEETNESS.